Are they? As I said, they’re generally good people and kind in their own ways, but they’re also abrasive, often with either loud or calculating personalities. It’s fine, I like characters that way as well, but seeing them be caring with relaxed personalities is not super common.
You don’t often get a protagonist like Tanjirou, who was basically the caretaker of his family. It’s not often you see male characters actively taking care and looking out for others in ways beyond protecting in a fight. It’s just so refreshing for me lol and so endearing.